以前、猫の雑誌の人の投稿を読んではっとさせられたことがある。子育てが一

以前、猫の雑誌の人の投稿を読んではっとさせられたことがある。子育てが一段落したという投稿者の女性は、日々猫に癒されているそうなのだが、猫がごはんを食べたりしただけ「たくさん食べて偉いね」などと褒めちぎっているのだという。そんな自分の行動から、「自分の子供にも口うるさいことばかり言わずに、もっと愛しく接して褒めてやればよかった」と振り返っていたのだが、
子供のいない私にもその言葉は心に染み入るものだった。子供に限らず、家族や友人や恋人や私たちはさまざまな期待をし、時に「本人のため」という理由から厳しい態度をとることがある。特に「親」という立場であれば、子供をじりつした大人にしなければ、というプレッャーからどうしても厳しくなってしまうだろう。しがし、それは時に本人を必要以上に追いつめ、最低限の「自信」すら奪ってしまうこともある。
だからといって、毎日本当に食べて寝て遊んでばかりいられても困るといえば困るが、基本的には元気でいてくれたらそれでokな気がする。

ผลลัพธ์ (อังกฤษ) 1:

You may read earlier posts for cats magazine, was striking. Daily pussy healed by women that are bringing up a child is so is the cat eating rice only are raving about and "eat a lot, great!" said. It is from their own actions had turned their children nag Word clue without touching more make and was compliment To my children that was elegantly. Is not limited to children, family, friends and lovers and we have different expectations and sometimes to the person because to get tough. Will from be adults with jiritsu children if especially 'parent' standpoint, the pressure just tight end. However, sometimes it upon himself to hunt down unnecessarily, depriving even minimal confidence. So with trouble speaking it going every day to eat, sleeping well is not just playing, but basically in good shape, hope it is ok to feel.

ผลลัพธ์ (อังกฤษ) 2:

Previously, there is a thing that has been is startled to read a post of human cat magazine. Women of contributor that child-rearing is settled down, although he's right has been healed in day-to-day cat, that he cat is raving about and the like simply by eating rice, "it great to eat a lot." From such their actions, "without saying just that nagging also to their children, do it if it was good praise in contact with more dear," but he was not looking back and,
his words to me without a child was something that Shimiiru in mind It was. Not limited to children, family and friends and lovers and we were a variety of expectations, it may take a strict attitude for the reason that at the time "for himself". If the particular position that the "parent", unless the adults who self-supporting children, will become absolutely strictly from Pure'ya that. Shigashi, it is sometimes himself cornered more than necessary, even that minimum would even took "self-confidence".
Just because, but troubled Speaking of trouble also need just playing to sleep and eat really every day, basically Once me have a healthy it ok that I feel is.

ผลลัพธ์ (อังกฤษ) 3:

Previously, the cat who read the book to start. The author and finished with parenting, female cats are healed so that the cat is praised, but only to eat and eat, such as "great" a lot of it. Because of their actions, "said to his children, the more nagging back with her beloved had praise", but II don't have any child's words in mind was sinking. Not only children, family, friends and lovers and we have different expectations for himself, "" is it because a strict attitude. Especially in the position of "parent", as if to adult size from childhood, and I was プレッャー strictly. However, it is sometimes more than necessary to himself, "" even the minimum confidence may be deprived.Every day, because I only played really eat sleep with you if you want to, well, if it is OK with that.